I write this blog in real time, and with real perspective! You may not like what I’m saying, but one day you will at least understand it (if you don’t already) we and society spend so much time prepping you for marriage and the wife role that they never stop to prepare your damaged soul.
You know, the soul that HE broke, the soul that slept with a few, the soul that compromised in more ways than one. You know the soul that says you have to be married by a certain age, and have kids by a certain time, or sacrifice your career etc. yeah… About that. That soul that you’ve hidden and packed away. It’s obvious you can identify and relate, but your probably so angry by now that you’ve stopped reading! You’re probably offended, feeling conflicted, sad, and other emotions that you won’t address or admit. (Those that do, know exactly what I mean) you realize you can’t have a real relationship with anyone until you’ve repaired your SOUL!
Ladies, I’m tired of us rejecting truth! I’m tired of us comparing ourselves to the fake lady on TV! I’m over us being in competition, but saying we aren’t. I’m tired us LYING to pacify our dysfunction. I’m tired of us profiting off of our own simply because we can!
Clearly, you know this is happening right? It’s time we really got real with WHY you’re single. WHY you keep dating HIM (Mr. Wrong) WHY you listen to those that advise you, but are just like you. WHY you’re unstable or competitive. WHY you can’t see beyond those that appear happy, but aren’t! Those that attempt to define you and those that want you to buy into the false reality that keeps you in lala land and broke while their pockets are fat!
Ladies, for the sake of your growth, development, and your future child’s development – we have to begin to change our mindset, get transparent, and evaluate life. Not the one you pretend to have! You have to take the steps to gain control over the real life you have instead of wasting time on the life you believe you want… You must truly find the inner you. If you know her – then why aren’t you helping the next her.. ?